The real question here is, "why are the men type men these women want, refusing to pair with them". Because, beta males, men who are chronically unemployed, prison pen pals, etc.. are all viable candidates for the "I don't need a man energy" that tends to come with these woman. Men who control there own airspace are kings of their castle. And the same goes for these type of women, they are also kings of their castles who are unwilling submit to his rule. Women should love the fact that these men have to the foresight to look 5-10 years in the future and see conflict and war between the two kingdoms. So, to further answer the question, these kings are intimidated, they're wise.