Two things are true from an early age. First, from an early age, little girls generally dream of getting married and how that's going look and play out one day for them. Which is why men have to understand that a wedding is a all about her, because it has consumed her most of her life (so it has to be as close to perfect as she can make it). And we're also told that men "must" respect this, and generally, men do. Now on the hand, you have young men advancing through life contemplating and speaking to others of the son that he one day create to be a better, taller, smarter, more athletic, smoother with the ladies, and etc.. version of him. And he every right to expect that the woman he procreates with, stand with him on protecting these virtues